There is a huge difference between being positive and being negative. Being positive is a way of living where you get the most out of life without other people telling you how to do it. This simple means: You do not need to be obnoxious, pushy, or rude to get it your own way.
You cannot just jump in with both feet and decide, “Hey, I’m going to be positive and no one will be pushing me around anymore. No more Mr. Nice Guy!” Learning how to be positive requires a new mindset and plan. Remember, you want to learn to be positive, not negative. So ask yourself these questions:
1. What do I value most?
2. What are my beliefs about how life works?
3. How do I feel about myself?
4. What are my approaches to life? Do these approaches work?
The fact that you purchased this report says a lot. It says you are seeking for improvements in life. Change starts with awareness. You are aware that you need to change; you just do not know how to get started. It is time to learn why you do what you are doing and how to turn that around. Remember, you cannot just flip a switch and instantly become positive and successful in life.
Mark Twain said, “We do not deal much in facts when we are contemplating ourselves.” In order to learn how to become positive and be in charge of your own life, you must be honest with yourself. Dr. Phil is always saying that you cannot change what you do not acknowledge. It is time to figure out what you are hiding from yourself.
• Do you consistently fail when it comes to attaining your goals in life?
• Are you just drifting along with no plan, goals, and idea?
• Are you stuck in a comfort zone that gives you no new challenges?
• Are you getting too little of what you really want and way too much of what you do not want?
• Are you living with guilt or frustration and do not know how to change things?
What is at stake here is the quality of your life. Do you want to live it fully and authentically? Or are you okay with someone else calling the shots and making decisions for you for the rest of your life?
Do you feel like you are constantly being pushed around? Do you feel like you are being taken advantage of? Do other people try to run your life? Do you feel that you are ready to start living life in your own terms?
You need not accept burdens like those listed above. You can assert yourself and reach for something better. You have the right and the ability to have what you want out of life. Let me warn you though, change does not come in an instant.
Positiveness is something that must be learned carefully one step at a time. This is especially true if you have spent years following others telling you what to do, how to do it, what to think, what to feel, etc. How motivated are you to change and learn to assert yourself?
Think about those people who run our world. Whether it is business, politics, sports, or entertainment, there is one common denominator for all these people. These people know which buttons to push to get what they want. Some of these people are extremely intelligent and articulate, while others are merely manipulative. Some are unconcerned whether you agree with them and share their views. Others are rabid in demanding that you fall in line with them. They feel that they know best and this gives them the authority to tell everyone what they should be doing and saying. It is their way or the highway.
Nir Rana is the editor and author of quality e-books for more visit: www.yourmindpowersite.com